No Complaint, No Maturation

　　In a restaurant, I met him.

　　He was grumbling continuously ever since he sat down, complaining hiscompany for little salary after eternally hard working; the unjust of his linemanager who merely promote the one ingratiate him with he; the unkind ofcolleagues for ganging up with and beating someone while

　　pretending to be wellwith Finally, I caught the moment he stopped and enquired him cautiously: sinceyou are so unhappy with your work, why not changing ? he stupefied with aglance to me seemingly an alien “跳槽?Where should I go? You know that the economy isin the boom.” I have got it. Actually, his job was not so terrible.

　　After the dinner, he said good-bye to me heartily and left me

　　histelephone specially. However, I have never connected him ever. For me, it isout of consideration to make a friend with 一個怒氣沖天的人.

　　It reminds me 阿瑟?阿什, a well-know tennisplayer in America. He happened to catch the AIDS when he got a bloodtransfusion. A pile of his fans showed their sympathy and blamed the unjustGod. While 阿瑟?阿什 declared: “I get adeadly cancer, but a would not complain the God and myself because I know thatsomething we can not run away. I have no choice but to face when the daycomes.”

　　Genius! In his words, there is calmness, magnanimous, open-minded, aswell as the demeanors of a mature man. Unfortunately, we complaint everythingwhen we have to face the difficulty and setbacks in reality:

　　we alwayscomplaining that the God is unfair; the crucial fate, the grim human beingsItis worth doing if his dissatisfaction go away, depression disappear, feelingsbecome motivational after complaint. But, the problem is, as a mass of shabbyand cool fog, the complaint is so misleading that confuses his mind and thendrops him deeper and deeper in the muddy.

　　Life is like a journey, from ignorant to mature. And I believe thattruly mature is start from no complaint.

　　翻譯：成熟，從不抱怨開始

　　遇見他，是在一個飯局上。

　　一落座，他就喋喋不休地抱怨起來：怨公司不好，拼死拼活一個月，拿到手里的工資沒多少;怨上司不公，誰擅長拍馬就重用誰;怨同事不善，成天勾心斗角明爭暗奪終于，在他暫停抱怨的間隙，我小心翼翼地問了一句：既然工作如此不稱心，為什么不跳槽呢?他一愣，奇怪地看了我一眼，似乎在看一個外星人。 “跳槽?現在經濟這么不景氣，往哪里跳?”一這下我算明白了，原來他的工作并非一無是處啊。

　　散席后。盡管他熱情地與我道別，并且特意留下他的電話，但我，卻再未聯系過他。對我來說，一個怨氣沖天的人，是不值得交往的。

　　不由得想起阿瑟?阿什。這位美國著名的網球名將，在一次輸血時感染了艾滋病。對于他的遭遇，許多球迷深表同情，且因此責怪老天對他太不公平。對此，阿瑟?阿什說道：“知今，我身患絕癥，我不怨天，也不怪自己;因為我知道有些事人無法左右，當不幸來臨時，我們只能面對�！�

　　說得多么好!在這段話里，我們看到了從容，看到了平靜，看到了坦蕩，看到了豁達，看到了一位成熟男人的風范。然而遺憾的是，在現實生活中，面對困難和挫折，我們聽得最多的，還是抱怨：怨蒼天不公，怨命運殘酷，怨人情冷酷如果說一個人抱怨之后，他的不滿與郁悶能夠隨風而去，心境能夠變得開朗起來，那他的抱怨還算是有價值的�？蓡栴}在于，抱怨恰如一股陰冷潮濕的黑霧，足以遮蔽他的眼光迷惑他的心智，最終讓佑在自怨自艾的泥潭里越陷越深。

　　人生就是一段旅程，是一段從青澀走向成熟的旅程。而我相信，真正的成熟，是從不抱怨開始的。

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